i found out i was pregnant with kaiden at end of septmeber in 2007 at 9 weeks and by this time kaidens daddy had an heart attack and was in hospital so travelled to see him everyday and we found they could be a possibility that kaiden could have this heart condition and could have an heart attack anytime while he was inside me. got to 12 week scan everything was perfect and got to 20 weeks tried to find out the sex of him but he didnt want to show us and also everything was perfect got to 40 weeks and 2 days before i gave birth on the 5th of july kaidens cord got to tight round his neck and strangled him on the 7th of july i gave birth to kaiden james o'rourke i felt on top of the world when the midwife handed him to me he weighed 6lb 9oz black hair...i didnt get to see what colour his eyes were but im sure they would of been brown like his mummys. I had him for two whole weeks before we buried him and over those two weeks he had changed so much like he had actually grown. I miss him more and more each day i wish he was here with me right now i love you kaiden james o'rourke love mummy and family xxx